Adrenaline Rush

[TheIronLung]

Ok I have a very bad temper. I am cool most of the time but if someone deliberately fucks with me I get really pissed off and snap. I just got a tattoo on friday and it is still sore. Today at school one of my friends said whats up and tapped me on the shoulder where my tatt is forgetting it was there. I told him to watch out cuz of it and he apologized. Right after that some other kid came up and purposely smacked me pretty fuckin hard right there. I totally flipped out. If you have had a tattoo you know what it feels like when someone gives you a open hand slap directly on it. I dropped my bag and ran at him punching him as hard as I could while screaming obsenities at him. I knocked the kid up against some lockers and kept hitting him untill he was down on the ground. Afterwards I realized what had just happened and how lucky I am that no teachers or administrators were around to see or else I would have been expelled right there because of my previous record. The point of this post is wondering if anyone else has this problem and how they harness it. Because I am a few months away from graduating and don't want to fuck this up.

[Dave_Jumpers]

Is that when e-tards roll their eyes back and blow vicks in the back of their eyes and then take a deep breath of vicks?

[TheIronLung]

couldn't tell ya

[Nimble*Syd]

I have a really, really bad temper. When I get pissed, I break things. Not minor things, like cups and flatware, but big things, like mirrors. I've been known to kick and punch holes in walls, and when I was younger, my older sister and I used to get in fights that occasionally landed one of us in the Emergency Room for stiches, broken bones, or concussions.

These days I just break something. It feels really good to just scream obscenities and hit stuff. I suggest you do the same. Smoking pot helps too.

The End.

[A\ex]

ha. not really. i think it's sort of silly. but seriously, if you happen to think for a second, you have to remember to take a deep breath. hyperventilation contributes to violent tempers i think. it just gives you time to think about what you're doing. you obviously sound mature enough to realize that beating this person really wasn't the best plan, so the objective should be to stop and think about the consequences of your actions. continue by all means if you somehow happen to justify what you're doing at that point.
personally i just bottle it all up, and have a breakdown every few years. i know that isn't the best idea either. but i think one huge breakdown rarely, is better than a series of small violent tantrums.

[Effendi]

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First of all, Syd's right...I smoke alot of Pot...

Finishing School is only the immediate of your worries my friend....Try to keep a damn Job!!

When I was younger, I used to break things, like windshields (3) and my hands (7), and alot of other shit...mostly mine but occasionally some dickhead gets in the way...and well...you know......RIP!!

They say that "All Anger is the result of Unfullfilled expectations" if you think about it for awhile, and break it down, it is kind of true, or at least it is for me.

But that doesn't account for Temper, there is no accounting for the Rage, and I can't explain it to you, I just can tell you that your not alone, There just isn't any counting to ten for me...by the time anyone gets to two....somethings in trouble...animal, vegetable or mineral!!

Hang in there man, I guess recognizing that it's a problem is a good thing!!

Scott!!

[PulpMind]

take Yoga.
seriously.

not only will it help you harness your energies and keep you from blowing your top, but girls love guys who Ohm.

it will help you dig inside yourself and find why you're so angry... that's all that really needs to be done.

Shu'kran,
- Jesiah -

PS - there's forms of yoga that dont' require being super flexible... just breathing.

[HexRei]

so, if your lungs are all ravaged from disease or whatever, and you can't control your breathing properly... does that mean you can't experience the Yogi Oneness or whatever?

[junglesolja]

Originally posted by PulpMind
take Yoga.
seriously.

not only will it help you harness your energies and keep you from blowing your top.I also learned how to suck my own dick.

[texas chainsaw mascara]

I have a short fuse too. I am really really impatient, and get pissed off pretty easy.

Breaking things is fun. I usually tend to just throw things up against walls though. (Phones, shoes, glasses, etc...)

It's therapy.

[HexRei]

Wohoo! Let's hear it for throwbacks to primate heritage! Do you guys beat your chests and grunt too?

[Effendi]

Sometimes.......

[FatSetH]

I hate it when I am on the phone listening to someone telling me some important need to know information , and then having soem one who is with trying to get my attention , it totally freaks me out and i start getting really confused and sometimes just totally lock up , like i blew a micro chip or something like that.

[sothis]

If you have had a tattoo you know what it feels like when someone gives you a open hand slap directly on it.

damn, you must have a pretty low tolerance for pain.

i have two gigantic ones on my legs (a foot high each)... and i slapped it ALL THE TIME with my open palm, so it would stop itching... it stung a bit, but it more felt good to stop itching. i definitely wouldnt have hit someone over it. if you have that high of a pain tolerance you shouldnt be getting body mods if you will cause violence over them.. jeez

violent people scare me, especially guys... cuz who knows when you will have a steady girlfriend who will do something that rubs you the wrong way, or hit you playfully and you beat her to a pulp.

[TheIronLung]

Sothis

It's not the fact that it hurt that bad, its the fact that I just told someone to watch out for it then this guy comes up and straight up slaps me there on purpose. In no way am I excusing my actions thats why I started this post was to ask how to deal with my anger.

[Vixie]

I say you should learn some neat karate moves and catch the guy that hit you when he leasts expects it...


heheheheheheh...

[PulpMind]

to junglesolja: fuck you, you damn snot headed bitch. if I ever see you, I'm going to stomp on your damn head and shit in your ingorant cranium. learn how to fucking direct your feelings before you go blowing off and taking cheap shots for nothing more than an emptired glory fight for your own fruitless prosperity and recognition from the equally ignorant.

HAPPY HAPPY JOY JOY!

OOOHHHHHMMMM!!!

Shu'kran,
- Jesiah -

[bungle bliss]

I think you should get a hold on this problem because it will only get worse as you age.

I noticed I was a bit overly violent in high school. Now I'm 22, and when I get pissed off I have to break things in order to keep from strangling people or smashing their skull in with a hammer. ;-/ I noticed alcohol wasn't the greatest help, but weed is......and so is learning that hitting someone only breeds more senseless mentality. At this age in my life it still hasn't quite sunk in that violence isn't the answer, and I wish it would because I am tired of throwing things and breaking them. I've broken important stuff like computers and stereos in fits of anger that later on made me wish I had stopped to think first.

take Yoga.
seriously.

not only will it help you harness your energies and keep you from blowing your top, but girls love guys who Ohm.


Word to that. People wonder why I study Buddhism yet want to learn how to box at the same time. Buddhism helps me keep my anger in check, and it helps me realize what's really important. I like to hit people when they piss me off, but I realized that throwing stuff and smashing it was just as therapeutic. And letting go of your desire for material things is an important step in Buddhism anyway... ;)

But yeah, a good smack upside the head never did anyone any harm. :D

[foofy]

Originally posted by A\ex

count to 10!


the point about rage is that its impossible (or at least i find it so) to stop at all for even a split second. most times its happened before ive even realized whats going on.

and i definitely feel you on the temper thing. 99% of the time im the calmest person ever. it takes a LOT to piss me off. but every now and then something happens that makes you snap or someone pushes you over the edge.

i remember one time a friend came up behind me and smacked me in the back of the head for one reason or another. i dunno if he just hit me harder than he meant to or if he was just being a dick, but it pissed me the hell off and so, just fucking furious, i stabbed him in the leg a couple inches below the knee. soaked his jeans and socks in blood.

bottles have been broken over heads, those metal laminate doors in bathrooms have been dented, mirrors broken.

mostly i end up injuring myself now instead of others which is actually rather unfortunate since its more convienent for me when OTHER people get hurt.

but yeah. rage is a bitch. as a result two fingers on my right hand dont have the same range of motion that the ones on my left do.

[pinkshag]

i have a bad temper too..but ive never beat somebody for it.. i mean i cant say i almost have..but ive always been able to stop myself from it..
i just yell and scream and get really pissed off.
dude i hate people that do shit on purpose just to piss people off..maybe now that kid will learn not to fuck with people cuz now he will see what happens when he does =)
valuable lesson learned? i think so