one of my friends is stoping being a raver any help?

[legoman457]

my friend is starting to leave the rave scence any help?

[kizat]

what do you need help with??

If they dont want to be a part of it then they aren't cut out for it and shouldn't be here......

-Kat

[KaMeN]

I think we should all follow his example. You have an extremly smart friend. take his advice.

[BettieRage]

Ravers scare me :(

[twistedweather]

how do you start to leave?

[peace&love]

does he have a reason,suchas drugs or people, sometimes it is beneficial for someone to leave the scene for a while, no what i'm sayin'

[AliciaisAlwaysPimpin]

i suggest advice that you better starting being a raver who is stoping being a raver in the scence

[Masakai]

haha
I haven't been to a party in almost a year... It used to be my life too... I worked to party, all my friends partied, and it was great.

Now here I am, no more parties, no drive to go, and where is everyone who said they were my friends?? Gone. They were trivial "party friends"

Maybe ths person needs to find themselves and realize that there is more to life and the weekend.

~j

[Dave Science]

damn that brought my roll down

:(

[~*IrishFaerie*~]

Originally posted by Genma
damn that brought my roll down

:(

pahahaha....That was funny.

But ya, if your friend wants to leave the scene then let them. They probably have a good reason like they don't like the drama, they want to get away from the drugs, or that phase in their life is just over. There is no use dragging them to a party if they don't want to be there.

[groovinkim]

Originally posted by Masakai
Now here I am, no more parties, no drive to go, and where is everyone who said they were my friends?? Gone. They were trivial "party friends"


it sucks when that happens :/
but that one reason why i don't try to make friends with ravers.

[KellyVakaNoodle]

I think you should respect your friends decision to leave. The scene can be really scary and can really mess up a persons life. I absolutely love the music and I love most of the people, but I have to honestly say that part of that scene took me in and took me down with it (drugs). I was doing so many drugs, and there came a point in my life where I finally took a step back and looked at what I was doin, and realized I wasn't going to get anywhere doing this, and I no longer had the respect of my family and my other friends. Now I'm happy, sober, healthy, and I have a beautiful 17 month old boy. Getting out of the scene was the best thing I could have done for myself and my son.

[~/x\_Tygon_/x\~]

the first thing you have to do is figure out your friends reasoning for leaving... is it the drugs, or the drama or what??? sometimes we all just need a break from everything, time to get life situated without the lure of next weekends party to distract us. its my personal opinion that if the person you are refering to truely found the music and what the scene is truely about and just want to get away from the drugs, then they'll do what they need to do and they'll be back... i was gone from the 'rave scene' up until recently for about three months, but the fact of the matter is i can not get the music out of me, and subsequently am back with more of a drive to be sober at parties and enjoy it for what it is WITHOUT the drugs. granted, i celebrated my come back with a bang... but now its time to dedicate the time and energy into my dancing rather than where im going to score something and how high i can get.

like i said, if your friend found the music and such... they'll be back, at least in some capacity. if they were just here to get fucked up and have an excuse to be around a lot of other kids who were, then let them go.. and personally i say good riddance.

of course that's just my opinion... i could be wrong
(ok, time to go put that in my signature now)

TTFN,
Ty

[bungle bliss]

This is why it's silly to classify ones self as a raver. If you don't call yourself a raver, you never have to "stop" being one.

Getting your groove on to electronic music makes one a raver? I dunna thinks so. Getting your groove on to techno music exclusively might make on a raver, but if you want to branch out that's even better.

But then you might have to drop the label of "raver". Oh dear.

[AuttiePottie]

You should suport their decision.

I rarely party any more. Not unless there is a Dj i cant go w/o seeing. I got tired of the drama, the late nights, all the drugs, etc. But just because I only party once and a great while, doesnt mean I wasnt cut out for it. I just relized after a while that I had bigger priorities. Like school and family.

If your friend stops going to parties, that doesnt necessarily mean that they will be leaving the scene all together. I still keep up to date on music and most things going on in the "scene".

This is why it's silly to classify ones self as a raver. If you don't call yourself a raver, you never have to "stop" being one.

I agree with this. I have never been one to label myself with anything other then my ascribed labels. i duuno... i just think its silly.

Much Love,
Autumn :rolleyes:

[oreopants]

Word!

Listen to the words of the wise. You'll be happier and you'll live longer.

Didi

[186k\sec]

i think this was an April fools joke..

but if you really want to help... show em the door.