Agressive" Girls

[Primer]

In my experience, girls who are "aggressive" (she calls you to ask you out, she makes a pass at you first, she tries to "get"/"capture"/"snare" you or whatever) are girls that for the most part you should avoid.

Is this similar to what you guys in here have experienced? I know that any girl who makes a pass at me in the future will be receiving extra scrutiny...

Discuss

[HexRei]

Ya, I only date demure girls that speak when spoken to, and show no initiative and have no sexual or romantic ambitions of their own. It's so lame when they start thinking for themselves!

/sarcasm

Why don't you got start another car thread or something.

[A.J.]

dood seriously.... no. you are wrong.


All girls are bad....

[angelwings]

Originally posted by HexRei
Ya, I only date demure girls that speak when spoken to, and show no initiative and have no sexual or romantic ambitions of their own. It's so lame when they start thinking for themselves!

/sarcasm

Why don't you got start another car thread or something.

LOL!! ;)

[geminiboi]

Originally posted by HexRei
Ya, I only date demure girls that speak when spoken to, and show no initiative and have no sexual or romantic ambitions of their own. It's so lame when they start thinking for themselves!

/sarcasm

Why don't you got start another car thread or something.

BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

*gasps for air*

[Tracered]

Originally posted by HexRei
Ya, I only date demure girls that speak when spoken to, and show no initiative and have no sexual or romantic ambitions of their own. It's so lame when they start thinking for themselves!

/sarcasm


Hmmm, all good qualities, but why don't we add a few. I'm pretty sure that any woman should:

1. Have no ideas whatsoever regarding politics, science, or technology.
2. Be barefoot and pregnant, in the kitchen makin' me some dinner.
3. Not have any education past the age of 14, if any education at all. Knowledge causes worry, and worry would blemish a cute little face.
4. Never drive a car of any kind, own property or possesions, hold a job, or handle money. That's MENS work, dammit.

/sarcasm.

Face it, Primer, women CAN and WILL make the first move, the last move, or any goddamn move they want to in when it comes to men. And frankly, I like a woman who knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to tell you what that is. Being shy and somewhat oblivious, I sometimes need to be slapped in the face by it to recognize something (or someone) wonderful.

[Kosmicdog]

I like girls that bite, scratch, pull my hair, call me names, slap me, and leave marks and bruises. Gets me all wet.

Yes, I'm serious.

[Primal]

Originally posted by A.J.
dood seriously.... no. you are wrong.


All girls are bad....

A.J. loves the cock :D

[angelwings]

Originally posted by Tracered


Face it, Primer, women CAN and WILL make the first move, the last move, or any goddamn move they want to in when it comes to men. And frankly, I like a woman who knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to tell you what that is.

Werd!!!

ohh and P.S. I bite, scratch, pull hair, call men names, slap, AND leave marks and bruises *wink wink* lol

[Tracered]

Originally posted by angelwings

ohh and P.S. I bite, scratch, pull hair, call men names, slap, AND leave marks and bruises *wink wink* lol

Oooo, damn. When's the next time you're coming down to Oreagon? <wink wink, nudge nudge>

[Kosmicdog]

*blinks*

did I just get hit on?

hehehe

[angelwings]

:D Muhahahaha :D

[A.J.]

Sondr and I are an item. You can't get to him without me being involved. Your gonna have to be doubleteamed, little missy.


*gasp*
hahahaha

*runs away*

[groovinkim]

i strongly prefer women who are assertive.. and men too for that matter.

life is too short to sit around crushing on someone and not do shit about it. what a waste! get it over with. mack on 'em, and if they don't like you, move on.

i'm really pro-aggression these days because i generally am pretty shy about flirting with people.. but i macked on the one i currently adore.. and it was oh so worth it.

so now i'm an evangelist for open flirtation ;)

he doesn't seem to feel i should be avoided... well, not yet anyway. heh.

[yewzer]

Aggresive and in your face people rule.

I have a tendancy to run my mouth and usually am the alpha of any circumstance, but my heart is always broken by the people who can actually make me shut up.

[Layla]

I macked on my boy...

He later confessed that he never makes the first move so I'm sure glad I did..

[sass.bot]

I'm aggressive, outspoken, and intimidating. Come 'n get me:D

(uh, please....)

[burnt]

well, I dunno, I can't really get into agressive people, period. they're fun to roll around with, but a lot of times they seem...to me, anyway...to be lacking substance.

its like the old phrase, "there are those who listen and there are those who wait to speak." agressive people simply wait for their turn to speak. that, or they're holding onto your every word, waiting for you to slip and make one somewhat untrue statement, so they can cling to that and "convince" you otherwise.....

agressive chicks suck, because, like, I might just be tryin to enjoy a beer or something, and it sucks if some drunk clubgirl is mackin, and won't just let the fuck off..........like, I'll make some kind of good point, such as, "I'm just really, really not interested" or whatever, and - I'll get this vibe like, "wow.......that was a great point you just made......it makes a lot of sense......so when are we gonna hook up?"

I mean hell, guys that do the same things to ladies suck too, people usually agree to that much.........or drunk overbearing gay wannabe playaz, they're the fucking worst. nah, I dont trust agressive girls, but I just don't trust overbearing people with agendas and shit, as a rule, especially when they go out of their way to present themselves as beautiful people or whatever.

I'd like to say that its because I try to control my own destiny, but that's a crock of shit. its more so because I'm a big fat pussy and hide from agression and drama like a little bitch. but still, agressive girls get nowhere fast with quiet guys like me.

yea, its a shitty attitude, but at least I ain't breaking any hearts with an attitude like that.

[boinkers]

Fuck that shit man! Honestly I have a god damn mind of my own and if I wan't to let it out I will. Just because were women doesn't mean we shouldn't be something. We are whatever the fuck we want to be. And you need to understand that. Maybe we are "aggresive" because we are god damn tired of waiting for the other person to make there move. And if you want it to happen sometimes you need to make it happen. Aggresive chicks rule! Damn. Maybe you just don't like being the pussy? God stick to a subject that isn't so god damn stupid.

[Primer]

Originally posted by Primer
In my experience, girls who are "aggressive" (she calls you to ask you out, she makes a pass at you first, she tries to "get"/"capture"/"snare" you or whatever) are girls that for the most part you should avoid.

Is this similar to what you guys in here have experienced? I know that any girl who makes a pass at me in the future will be receiving extra scrutiny...

Discuss

Well in my case the agressive woman that i've dated treated me bad and try to push me around like i was their lacky...i'm not saying agressiveness is a bad attribute its just from what i've exprience i steer away from agressive women.;)

[A.J.]

*pats you on the back and takes you aside for THE TALK*

Look young lad, you need to learn the truth... all women are going to treat you bad and shit all over you. There is no hope, its time to become and asshole and destroy them before they destroy you, or you can keep playing the chump.



NEXT!

[burnt]

naw, I'd rather keep whatever bit of karma I've maintained and try and play a mix instead. I need to turn over a new leaf.

[Miss_DatZ]

Originally posted by Tracered
...women CAN and WILL make the first move, the last move, or any goddamn move they want to in when it comes to men. And frankly, I like a woman who knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to tell you what that is. Being shy and somewhat oblivious, I sometimes need to be slapped in the face by it to recognize something (or someone) wonderful.

We need more men like you in the world.

:D

[bungle bliss]

Originally posted by Primer


Well in my case the agressive woman that i've dated treated me bad and try to push me around like i was their lacky...i'm not saying agressiveness is a bad attribute its just from what i've exprience i steer away from agressive women.;)

Primer, the solution isn't to avoid aggressive girls. You are just too passive, I'm guessing. Some girls take advantage of that.

Me, I loooove the thrill of the chase, and when in a relationship I tend to be "aggressive". But I don't look it it as agressive. I look at is as going for what I want when I want it.

Aggresive and in your face people rule.


Tell that to Mike S! He still won't let me hit it at least once goddammit!

Damn, there I go being agressive again.

i strongly prefer women who are assertive..

Nevermind, Kim's better. ;)

[LunaLizz]

i couldn't imagine being a shy, scared, quiet little girl. i enjoy being 'aggresive' as you put it. it gets me places inlife i couldn't get by keeping my mouth shut. what am i if i just sit around and dont speak my mind>where does that get me? not far!;)

[A.J.]

Originally posted by LunaLizz
i couldn't imagine being a shy, scared, quiet little girl. i enjoy being 'aggresive' as you put it. it gets me places inlife i couldn't get by keeping my mouth shut. what am i if i just sit around and dont speak my mind>where does that get me? not far!;)

Hey now thats not true. It would get you married to a southern baptist!

[LunaLizz]

LMAO! w00t w00t! that would go over well, eh?

[Justin]

Originally posted by groovinkim

life is too short to sit around crushing on someone and not do shit about it. what a waste! get it over with. mack on 'em, and if they don't like you, move on.


that's such a good point. it got me thinking for awhile. . .thinking in good ways. i really need to ratchet up my assertiveness level.

now i just need to find a crush so i can work on it. :D

[balloon kitten]

Originally posted by dr. panik
A.J. loves the cock :D
:D

[angelwings]

Originally posted by A.J.
*pats you on the back and takes you aside for THE TALK*

Look young lad, you need to learn the truth... all women are going to treat you bad and shit all over you. There is no hope, its time to become and asshole and destroy them before they destroy you, or you can keep playing the chump.



NEXT!

LOL...you are single huh?

[AthenA]

I'm a bit confused here. From what I've read thus far, there is no good definition of "aggressive", or why aggressive girls cause problems for you guys that steer clear of them. Is making the first move the only criteria for being catagorized as an aggressive girl? Because I have found that in many cases, that is not a sign of aggression, but merely being tired of waiting for the idiot guy to pick up on a girl's subtle hints. Also, it's just not safe to judge whether or not a girl is aggressive based on the game she may or may not spit. I consider myself to be an aggressive female...smart, competitive, and decisive. However, I have yet to make the first move in any relationship (primarily because if the man is too dense to pick up on my hints, he's too dense to date.).

My theory is that some men don't like aggressive women because they know what they want, and sometimes that doesn't include you. I find it very hard to believe that men don't like it when a girl hits on them. It's much easier for me to believe that men don't like it when the person they're hitting on is the guy standing next to them, or the possibility of that chick laying it down for them when it's time to part ways.

Somebody prove me wrong...I'm interested to hear what the real reason is.

[bungle bliss]

I can sum up why Primer and others steer clear of aggressive girls-

THEY CAN'T HANG!

:D

[Star_Dancer]

I'm shy, quiet, and not ever making the first move. In my case though it's because I have great taste in girls. And these girls usually become good friends. In my experience friends last longer and mean more than relationships. So if I'm crushing on a girl I can never make a move because it would take away a friend.

That and I really don't understand people. It takes awhile for me to get comfortable enough with a person to speak my mind, so yeah, I like aggressive girls.

[pizzazz]

Originally posted by A.J.
*pats you on the back and takes you aside for THE TALK*

Look young lad, you need to learn the truth... all women are going to treat you bad and shit all over you. There is no hope, its time to become and asshole and destroy them before they destroy you, or you can keep playing the chump.



NEXT!

You must have known my first bf. It's a small small world.... :)
Not every aggressive woman is going to treat you poorly. That's like giving up on men because you caught a few bad apples. That is all, the end.

[angry_bob]

I like aggressive women up to a point... But, these days I'm getting tired of dealing with pushy, overly aggressive people. So, I just get annoyed...

I agree with Burnt, overly agressive women can push away us quiet guys.

[LilMissDJ]

Originally posted by groovinkim
i strongly prefer women who are assertive.. and men too for that matter.

life is too short to sit around crushing on someone and not do shit about it. what a waste! get it over with. mack on 'em, and if they don't like you, move on.

i'm really pro-aggression these days because i generally am pretty shy about flirting with people.. but i macked on the one i currently adore.. and it was oh so worth it.

so now i'm an evangelist for open flirtation ;)

he doesn't seem to feel i should be avoided... well, not yet anyway. heh.

I'm usually shy myself when it comes to romantic interest, but never in friendly conversation. I took the plunge with the encouragement of a few friends and I've been in a very loving and satisfying relationship for a year now. I was so scared to take that gamble, but after I showed him I was for real, he jumped all over the situation. If you try, who cares if you don't get the guy/gal, you didn't lose a thing! If anything you gain that much more confidence to try again and if you get blown off, it's not a big deal.

On the other hand, someone is who excessively aggressive in an uninvited way is just invasive and bothersome. Let them know if they are pressing the issue with you. Communication is key...

Peace
Jamie