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Effendi
04-28-2004, 09:51 PM
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April 28, 2004 -- A giant-sized controversy is brewing over a baby adoption special on "20/20" - and sending ABC execs into a tailspin. Millions of viewers across the country watched in surprise over the weekend as the network aired a sensational promo for Friday's segment, which pits five desperate couples against each other for the privilege of adopting a 16-year-old's baby.
A very personal, intimate process was made to look like a reality-show contest, with prospective parents dubbed "winners" and "losers."

Yesterday, complaints flooded into radio stations, Web sites and even the FCC - many of them noting that host Barbara Walters is not only a respected journalist, but also an adoptive mother.

"I've already sent my outrage to [the producer of "20/20"] making a reality show out of something so personal," wrote one user on the Web site eeadopt.com.

"While I haven't seen the show, it definitely sounds like the marketing department at ABC was attempting to add a reality TV spin, which is definitely an all-time low - especially when children are at stake," says radio journalist Jane Braverman, who's adopting a child.

"My friend's teenage son, who was passing through the living room when the promotion was airing, even found it offensive. He said, 'How could a child be a prize in a reality show?'"

The program, titled "Be My Baby," set to air Friday during May sweeps, follows five couples through open adoption, which means the adoptive parents and birth mother are in contact, identities are disclosed and there is the potential for contact in the future.



The birth mother, 16-year-old Jessica, is shown in interviews with the prospective parents and in childbirth.

Jennifer Marando, co-director of A Child's Waiting adoption agency in Akron, Ohio, which participated in the show, says she and her sister and co-director, Crissy Kolarik, were completely disheartened by the teasers.

"We didn't go into this to outrage anyone," she says.

"We chose to participate in order to educate people on open adoption. But it's not an educational piece at this point - it's an entertainment piece made into a reality-show theme."

Marando confirms A Child's Waiting has received a number of complaints from distressed viewers.

For its part, ABC said it intended "Be My Baby" to be a realistic look at open adoption in America.

Amid the fury, ABC has since yanked the promo and replaced it with a toned-down version that presents the program less as a reality show and more as a documentary.

Jeffrey Schneider, head of ABC publicity, blamed the controversy on the misleading promotional spots.

"Clearly, the first promo that ran was leaving people with the wrong impression of what this hour is all about," said Schneider.

"It is a thoughtful report on the process of open adoption that we think will be of interest to the American people. We simply wanted to make sure that people understood what we would be broadcasting."

Marando hopes the positive aspects of her agency's work don't get lost amid the uproar.

"The producers shot a follow-up at the baptism," she said, "then again six months later to show that open adoption can be successful."

From the New York Post (http://www.nypost.com/entertainment/19700.htm)

.-=PSYLON=-.
04-28-2004, 10:03 PM
I dont want to give away how this ends, but they actually wind up dviding the baby into 5 pieces. ;)

amp11
04-28-2004, 11:55 PM
Originally posted by >Sound-wav.<
I dont want to give away how this ends, but they actually wind up dviding the baby into 5 pieces. ;)

..with their hands tied behind their back.

sam-i-am262
04-29-2004, 12:30 AM
This just makes me ill. I feel like its a bunch of network execs sitting around trying to come up with story ideas for ratings & bolster their own personal career success. While, in the meantime, there's an actual innocent baby in the middle of some primetime line-up being tossed around like a piece of meat.

It might not be as bad as all that - but that's the impression I got when I read that article. People should be in an uproar over this. & for God sakes, I hope they set up some sort of compensatory fund for the baby when he or she grows up & discovers that America saw something so personal about it's life plastered all across the tv. If that kid needs therapy - ABC better be willing to pay for it. At least people (i.e., adults) who sign up for reality shows are of sound mind & are capable of making the decision to put their lives on tv. Nobody asked the baby if it wanted to be on tv. This is just wrong. I hope somebody gets fired over this.....

& before you get all shitty about child actors - I feel the same way about them too (especially when they're really little).



just my .02 cents.....


Leah!!



.....what do you think about it Scott? You posted the thread......

amp11
04-29-2004, 12:44 AM
Originally posted by sam-i-am262
....I feel like its a bunch of network execs sitting around trying to come up with story ideas for ratings & bolster their own personal career success...

that is how it is, unfortunately or fortunately. whatever you feel like

sam-i-am262
04-29-2004, 12:45 AM
I know. That's why it makes me feel so ill. It's wrong.

amp11
04-29-2004, 12:53 AM
amen. maybe if it was a cloned baby, it wouldnt seem so.. wrong.

sam-i-am262
04-29-2004, 12:54 AM
aaaaaaaaaaah!!! That's even worse!!

*runs & hides under the covers*

Jeremiah
04-29-2004, 07:56 AM
I hate television.

Headphones Dude
04-29-2004, 09:09 AM
I wouldn't mind if it was just some show about 2 possible couples who could adopt the kid, but once it's all about competition between 3-15 couples or whatever, it isn't fair to all the losers, since there can only be one couple who get to adopt. The adoption agencies I'm sure turn down most couples a few times anyway, so why throw salt in their wounds making it public? If they dare get this on the air, then I'll boycot the station probably.....

SoulKid
04-29-2004, 09:49 AM
Originally posted by >Sound-wav.<
I dont want to give away how this ends, but they actually wind up dviding the baby into 5 pieces. ;)

Nice.... :p hehe

amp11
04-29-2004, 10:00 AM
Originally posted by sam-i-am262
aaaaaaaaaaah!!! That's even worse!!

*runs & hides under the covers*

:-*



i'll boycott it with you headphones..and i dont even watch tv, but if i pretend, then its all the same

Dave Science
04-29-2004, 10:26 AM
What's next?

Most Extreme Elimination Abortion?

AMERICA = WTF

sam-i-am262
04-29-2004, 12:21 PM
Originally posted by Genma
What's next?

Most Extreme Elimination Abortion?

AMERICA = WTF
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaah............ I can't take it anymore. Blech.......

*runs & hides under covers & this time refuses to come out .......can someone bring me some food? I'm getting hungry under here!!*

.-=PSYLON=-.
04-29-2004, 04:14 PM
Originally posted by sam-i-am262
...While, in the meantime, there's an actual innocent baby in the middle of some primetime line-up being tossed around like a piece of meat.

I hope they set up some sort of compensatory fund for the baby when he or she grows up & discovers that America saw something so personal about it's life plastered all across the tv. If that kid needs therapy - ABC better be willing to pay for it. At least people (i.e., adults) who sign up for reality shows are of sound mind & are capable of making the decision to put their lives on tv. Nobody asked the baby if it wanted to be on tv. This is just wrong. I hope somebody gets fired over this.....

Truman show anyone ?

.-=PSYLON=-.
04-29-2004, 04:15 PM
Originally posted by Genma
What's next?

Most Extreme Elimination Abortion?

AMERICA = WTF

ahhh...Right you are, Ken.

sam-i-am262
04-29-2004, 09:45 PM
Originally posted by >Sound-wav.<
Truman show anyone ?
Yeah huh..... I guess it does sound like The Truman Show. I didn't think about that until now. hmmmmmmm..... that poor baby. *sigh*

Cethe
04-29-2004, 11:37 PM
Originally posted by amp11


that is how it is, unfortunately or fortunately. whatever you feel like

exactly why I don't pay for cable tv, or watch any network tv at all anymore....i'm all about the dvd freedom pass & the internet!! choose you're own entertainment...and you can avoid the commercials too (if you can close 'em quick enough, lol)

LipiMcLipperson
04-30-2004, 06:58 AM
Originally posted by >Sound-wav.<
I dont want to give away how this ends, but they actually wind up dviding the baby into 5 pieces. ;)

LOL.....then they're gonna fight over who gets what part, I mean....some parts would be grosser than others......everyone will want the cute little baby wrists and fingers;)

HexRei
04-30-2004, 07:07 AM
Ever since G4 took Wil Wheaton off of Arena, I have no reason to watch TV, cable or otherwise.

U111
04-30-2004, 02:53 PM
Originally posted by amp11
amen. maybe if it was a cloned baby, it wouldnt seem so.. wrong.

hehe
that baby does not look too happy about it. 'you're going to what?'

Our society has come a long way from working on the farm. All TV is good for is star trek re-runs! oh, and the smurfs of course, but I have not seen much of them lately. Maybe I'm just too busy being a 33 year old man playing with a slinky. It's just practice for having children, I swear that's all it is.

Star_Dancer
04-30-2004, 04:10 PM
Bobbing for Babies