peculiar kind of friend.

[orchid]

Blech.
I just had a yucky experience with someone I met on this board! http://www.hyperreal.org/~gruvnkim/ubb/frown.gif

I thought it would be cool to try to be this person's friend. But I guess I can't muster the kind of "understanding" this person needs. I simply cannot be overly gushingly "sympathetic" when I really see the truth as not being so metaphoric or limiting. I cannot see how life is out to get one person in particular...or that girls are either!

Disappointed. I have been painted as cold and unfeeling because I was straight up and honest.

Disappointed, but still feeling integrity.

Love to all of you out there for your words.

peace,
Orchid

[wylde]

*hug*

[psyanide]

*hugz* http://www.hyperreal.org/~gruvnkim/ubb/smile.gif

J

[HexRei]

I'm sorry to hear about that... my dad has some issues with women too and I have a very difficult time dealing with him.
But I know who and what this problem is, and I offer you my support.

[orchid]

thanks...
It's not my intent to slander anyone...so I don't need to go into the details.

I'll just take the hugs and the smiles please!

[orion]

Poor thing, what happened, are you okay?

[HexRei]

Shut up, you misogynistic asshole.

[YOYO]

WHAT'S MYSOGENISIC???

[HexRei]

www.dictionary.com (http://www.dictionary.com)

[aquarianfaery]

Hey Orion, I thought you weren't going to post here anymore...Hmmm? Well, look you sadistic onus of a person. I know you enjoy infamy, and might even like to think that you're inimitable, but you're just a sad, sad person. I know it's easy to get to the point where you're so tired of people treating you like crap that you decide to unedningly return the favor, but get off your goddamn pity pot and grow the fuck up! The people off this board that I know are kind people, and some of them could probably kick your little "intellectual" ass in an argument as you would try to support your mentally masturbatory statement with half-assed logic, so just stop, my little angst-ridden friend! Stop now..........They aren't the ones who caused you to be bitter, melancholy, and pessimistic. You did it to yourself by refusing to forgive the world. Grow up, please.

P.S. I hope I don't sound too whiny, but I'm tired of wasting my time reading posts by this person, and I'm not going to post again underneath this topic, so say whatever the hell you want.....I forgive you. http://www.hyperreal.org/~gruvnkim/ubb/smile.gif http://www.hyperreal.org/~gruvnkim/ubb/wink.gif

[MeowMix]

Hmm...I'm really sorry that happen to you Orchid. What is left of my happiness and joyfulness goes out to you. I'm very drained of both those things...being as it is Christmas and all. Whats the deal with the Orion character? I guess I've just missed why everyone seems to dislike them. *hugz*meow

Alexia

[jrzmike]

hey aquarianfaery you said "mentally masturbating"...again...how was WTO...heard it was a riot...mike

[JokerJackle]

I saw Donald Glaude last night, I mean this morning, um what ever. He torn shiz up

If he was a woman I would still love him, I mean her. Hmmm damn genders, hey Hexrei is there a word for hating both genders? I mean not all people just the two major genders.

[HexRei]

misandronist? hehe, i just coined that term.
from now on, thats a person that hates both genders, but not all people in general.

[DustfluffyB]

Yeah for being honest!!!!
http://www.hyperreal.org/~gruvnkim/ubb/smile.gif Some people can't handle it but don't feel bad. Life isn't big squishy hugz all the time.
Luv and Huggies
Danaelle

[orion]

OK. Let me clear this up just a little.
This sinister harassment I'm guilty of.

Orchid and I went out together two times,
we knew each other two weeks. I was unable
to make it to our 3rd scheduled meeting
because I lost my cat that day whom I had
as a pet for 14 years.

The harassment consisted of calling her
5 times the next day without leaving a
voice message (caller ID).

Now, it sounds very sinister as though it
might be rape or stalking if you don't
mention specifics. And you've told a few
people who I am, without telling everyone,
which means it's bound to get out without
being challenged as it would if you were to
just come out and say what harassment I
had specifically committed.

I feel that you are trying to make it sound
worse than it is by not giving specifics,
but just darkly alluding to some kind
of harassment.

I was on good terms with you as of the day
I called you 5 times and you don't have the
right to smear me in this way. I lost
my cat, and I am clinically depressed.
That means I sleep 12-14 hours a day and
have very little energy, despite this
I am working hard and doing well in this
world.

Now the disgust that others have for me
is because of the stunt I pulled.
I made a bogus post wherein I complained
about being harassed by a mentally
unstable person and that the lost cat thing
was just a guilt trip on me, which is
just what orchid said to me in the
email she sent me complaining about the
phone calls.

Pleas for reconcilliation were met with
venom. I feel also that I would not have
been condemned for calling you 5 times in
one day if I had not the day before stood
up for a fellow who was complaining about
girls not liking him, who was being "set
straight" by everyone else. I expressed
my own frustration with girls, I wasn't
complaining, I was standing up for
someone by agreeing with him.

Pigpile on the loser.

[orion]

There is one thing I have had on my chest
for a long time.

I had two warnings that orchid should
get dissed.

1st, the night we went out to dinner at
the vegetarian restaurant when she
said she has no compassion for the
depressed. I should have followed my
impulse to pay the bill and let her
walk home, a lesson learned once again.

2nd, the night we were at the rave when
that a guy had her arm around her and
was flirting with her. She put her index
finger up his nose and pulled it out and
stuck it in his mouth, and the sucker
didn't say a word. A girl once did that
to me, and I threw hot coffee on her and
pretended it was an accident. Trust
your instincts.

[CaLm]

I think both parties need to mature up a bit Orchid: If you had a personal problem with someone why would you bring it to a public forum except to somehow validate yourself or slander someone else? i dont see what you could hope for posotive from doing this, but i could see how it could provoke a large negative disagreement. im not ragin on ya in the least bit and im sorry for any offense i may be causing

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Wicked men obey out of fear.Good men from love

[orion]

PS. The sucker who she did that to is
among the noblemen here pig-piling on
me, the loser. I am not revealing your name
now but in the future I will trick you into
revealing your name.

[DjMascara]

LOL @ HexRei

[orion]

You contradict yourself. Obviously
you care and obviously you are a whiner
too. I care about this because I hold a
grudge, what's wrong with that.

You should be ashamed of yourself.
Maybe I'm mentally unstable, maybe you
shouldn't keep trying to tear down
an easy target. My suggestion is
go find some elderly people and pick on them
for complaining about their hospital beds.

[orion]

OK. Let me clear this up just a little.
This sinister harassment I'm guilty of.
Orchid and I went out together two times,
we knew each other two weeks. I was unable
to make it to our 3rd scheduled meeting
because I lost my cat that day whom I had
as a pet for 14 years.

The harassment consisted of calling her
5 times the next day without leaving a
voice message (caller ID).

Now, it sounds very sinister as though it
might be rape or stalking if you don't
mention specifics. And you've told a few
people who I am, without telling everyone,
which means it's bound to get out without
being challenged as it would if you were to
just come out and say what harassment I
had specifically committed.

I feel that you are trying to make it sound
worse than it is by not giving specifics,
but just darkly alluding to some kind
of harassment.

I was on good terms with you as of the day
I called you 5 times and you don't have the
right to smear me in this way. I lost
my cat, and I am clinically depressed.
That means I sleep 12-14 hours a day and
have very little energy, despite this
I am working hard and doing well in this
world.

Now the disgust that others have for me
is because of the stunt I pulled.
I made a bogus post wherein I complained
about being harassed by a mentally
unstable person and that the lost cat thing
was just a guilt trip on me, which is
just what orchid said to me in the
email she sent me complaining about the
phone calls.

Pleas for reconcilliation were met with
venom. I feel also that I would not have
been condemned for calling you 5 times in
one day if I had not the day before stood
up for a fellow who was complaining about
girls not liking him, who was being "set
straight" by everyone else. I expressed
my own frustration with girls, I wasn't
complaining, I was standing up for
someone by agreeing with him.

Pigpile on the loser.

[Jinger]

Please give this up. You are wasting valuable space. I am not going to pick on you, i haven't really much care what is going on with you or this other person, it doesn't matter to me or anyone else. Could you please stop wasting our space? Maybe this board doesn't mean much to you but it does to a lot of people here! Please stop taking up space with something that really is not important to us.

[LordWoon]

*poof*

[This message has been edited by LordWoon (edited 03-28-2000).]

[orion]

Funny, you could have removed my posts any
time, but you waited until I got the
upper hand in the argument and some
sympathy. Understandable.

Whoever emailed my boss, nice try,
he doesn't care and that means even
if he believed you. I don't know what
you said to him.

You speak your mind, I'll speak mine.
I wish you no harm, but I feel you must
wish me harm. What good does it do
me if you suffer? I don't think you
understand that. If this means nothing
to you then leave it alone. It will
die, as long as I get the last word.

[orion]

You have a depressed uncle?
Go pick on him then.
First give him something to complain about,
then pick on him for complaining about it.

You sure are a whiner, if you have to
complain so much just about me complaining,
I bet you wouldn't like it if someone
smeared you on the board for no good
reason.

[orion]

Show us your maturity.

You obviously are a very angry agressive
person who needs an easy target to pick on.
I don't see EVERYONE here over-reacting
the way you are. Let's see how mature you
are.

In fact, I don't even need to get the
last word, so long as you don't get the
last word.

I'm a dick, what's your excuse?

[sothis]

orion:

i do believe the reason why people have lost their respect for you is because you *lied* to all of us, blatantly, turning the situation around.

i would say more but lordwoon portrays the situation quite well.



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-sothis
(pronounced 'sew-thees', *NOT SO THIS*.)

bah.

http://www.toons.cs.wwu.edu/johnsok5/partypictures.html

[LordWoon]

*poof*

[This message has been edited by LordWoon (edited 03-28-2000).]

[sin]

roflmao!!!! sorry, but this is some of the funniest shit I've seen in a long long time.

[orchid]

i thought this lie was dead...now i find you pile more lies on top.

shees.

this is dead to me

[groovinkim]

I am clinically depressed.
That means I sleep 12-14 hours a day and
have very little energy, despite this
I am working hard and doing well in this
world.

are you taking meds? sleeping 12-14 hrs a day isn't too joyous of a way to live...

Funny, you could have removed my posts any
time, but you waited until I got the
upper hand in the argument and some
sympathy. Understandable.

no, he couldn't have. moderators can only moderate their particular category.

[kimberlily]

i'm very sad to see that the arguing has creeped into my section...
ok...let's all take a deep breath, I'M SERIOUS...
i don't know what happened, i don't want to know, i'm not involved & i'd prefer to keep it that way
BUT
it does concern me that this has gone on for so long...
and, candeegirl, depression concerns me...
clinical psychological disorders are not things that can be controlled by the individual
please kids...is there any way we can chill out & get over it? honestly, it's not worth it...

[LordWoon]

*Sigh*

Very well, Kimberlily...

[kimberlily]

images/smilies/smile.gif
you rock!

[LordWoon]

Anything for you, Kim. images/smilies/smile.gif

[EvulSpeakerGurl]

okie images/smilies/smile.gif

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(*^!~Danni~!^*)
AIM:Soopr Vix in
ICQ:22328618

[EvulSpeakerGurl]

okay... im usually not a bitch.. but orion, WHAT THE FUCK IS YOUR PROBLEM who cares if your depressed?? obviousally no one here does. go whine to someone who cares... like... a shrink???

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*Hugz n Love*
(*^!~Danni~!^*)
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ICQ:22328618