Are you a proud Straight boi/gurl?

[Hatboi78]

Hewwo. I am feelin a lil bit better now. And something came to my mind bout breeder boiz ( straight guys if ya don't know whut a breeder is). I was wondering there seems to be a lot of gaiety goin on. So I want the breeder boiz to step up. So straight guys/gurls I ask u this...... Ok say you got a friend of the same sex and this friend was bi/gay. And he/she liked you. And then told you. How would it maske u feel? This has happened 2 me b4 and I thought I was in lub wit dis boi. So my heart was broken. So how do u str8 fols act when some1 of the same gender is fond of you? Do you get all twitchy, u act different, U feel umcomfortable? And if so y??

CuDdLePiMp

~* Man invented weed, and God invented weed. SO who are you going to trust?*~

[sothis]

lots of girls hit on me. not many guys, but lots of girls.
usually it comes in the form of them coming up to me at parties, saying 'you are so beautiful, blah blah'

what do i do?
i say thank you.
thats all.
most of them just kinda look at me and wonder what the implication of that is.

i mean, a compliment is a compliment. if someones interested in you, thats a compliment to you no matter what the gender.

but i would never get with any of them, no. i am faithful to the boy gender :P

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(pronounced 'sew-thees', *NOT SO THIS*.)

bah.

http://www.toons.cs.wwu.edu/johnsok5/partypictures.html

[princesshannah***]

that actually flatters me when gay chicks come on to me!! if it was a close friend it would be a bit uncomfertable but if its just a stranger its cool cuz im not even sure if im a lesbo or not i prolly am bi cuz i do like girls(and dudes) but i just havent had any sexual encounters with them images/smilies/smile.gif
!*smoke weed everyday*!
************princesshannah***************

[Jameth]

well I thought I would open this thread ans stick my nose where it doesn't belong and tell ya'll how proud I am to be a always happy, sometimes flamey (very small amount of time), never str8 curious CUTE GAY BOI! WoOhOo gay boys rock and I am sooooo proud to be one of them...*turns nose up and makes bitchy face*

hehe images/smilies/smile.gif images/smilies/wink.gif images/smilies/biggrin.gif

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"Don't tell me why he's never good to you.
Don't tell me why he's never been there for you.
Don't you know that why, is simply not good enough.
So just let me try and I will be good to you.
Just let me try and I will be there for you.
I'll show you why there is so much more than good enough."

~8~Sarah McLachlan~8~

[Jameth]

hehe...I guess I should have read the posts and not just the subject. HeHe *SpaceBoi slaps himself and starts drooling*

But yes I am curious about how you str8 boys would react too...please tell. images/smilies/biggrin.gif

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"Don't tell me why he's never good to you.
Don't tell me why he's never been there for you.
Don't you know that why, is simply not good enough.
So just let me try and I will be good to you.
Just let me try and I will be there for you.
I'll show you why there is so much more than good enough."

~8~Sarah McLachlan~8~

[TrancePhreak]

I'm a straight boy, but hugs are a different matter as long as I know it's just a friendly greeting. If a friend of mine told me he felt that way about me, I'd definetly feel uncomfortable. It's just that when you know someone feels that way about you, often times you expect that they'll try to hit on your or try to touch you in ways that you don't like. However, my experiences with knowing gay boys is that they've left me alone after they knew I was straight and very happy being so. I sat next to a gay boy in one of my classes and not once did he ever do anything to make me feel uncomfortable.

Well, yeahs... hope this is the kind of thing you were looking for.


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[DJAugie]

Yeah friendly hugs are all good. I think its much easier to tell a guy coming on to me that I'm not gay then it is to tell a grrl that I'm not interested. With gay bois I can just explain I'm not gay and they're fine with that. With girls, I have no concret reason other then I'm not into her. Then the girl will walk away and think that I don't want to talk

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[L]

Well heh heh i have a little thing to say bout this. K this dude my ex ya know i told him i liked him and everything then he found out from some booznatch that i am bi. K but anyhoo he asked me about it i didnt deny it but i didnt admit to it either so he assumed.

His reaction? yes well he told me i am sick and twisted. That i am confused of what sex i want and that it is disgusting and inhuman and kept referring to me as one thing and as him another (normal). Hmmm jus thought id get my 2 cents in on the subjecto and yeah it kinda yeah well wowee i make no sense anymore!! =0P *hugz*

L

[L]

Ok i forgot to add something to that there!! *hehe* =0P

I also asked this boii if a guy came along and you were attracted to him would you ignore that attraction and not follow through on something that could be the best thing that ever happened to you, at the mercy of others opinions of gay peeple? Well yeah he jus was like ahhh there is no way i could be attracted to a guy and im like uhhh yeah you could anyone can has the ability to think anyone is attractive and the ability to love anyone its jus a matter of opening up. Argghhh i was going to say something else but i kinda forgot *weeehooo* =0P *big ole cheezy smilez*

ohhhh. . .waiiiit. . whoopsees n/m still dont member!! *nuuurd* i am wow.

[Tertyl]

I've had more gay guys ask to kiss me than straight girls...I wonder what that means?

I guess that I'll take flattery anyway I can get it...

[RiceDiva]

well--hmmm...lately ive been gettin compliments from both sexes. and i know back then i used to get very uncomfortable with gettin hit on from the same sex. but now, im more open. ive always thought girls and guys were both attractive...but i dunno if id call myself bi...and yeah, if i were to walk down the street...id check out guys, rather than girls. personality is what makes people more attractive. and if one of my girl-friends were to hit tell me she liked me...i dunno how id react? i guess its cuz thats never happened to me...so time will tell.

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[Hatboi78]

hey tertyl.. i want to kiss you <g> just to make yah feel better. *plants a big ole wett smoochy woochy 1 right on da lips* hehe Hell i will give ya da tongue *LiCk* ~*grinz*~
Marquis

[Hatboi78]

trancePhreak.... Usay you would feel uncomfy if a male friend of yours told you he had a thing for yah huh? IS it cause of he is a friend of yours, or is it cause of the whole gay thing and you are str8. See my thing/beef is why do straight guys need to feel that way. I mean its ok for a gurl to tell another gurl shes pretty, or whatnots. But let a man say it and all hell breaks loose. I would say be flattered and tell him politely you are not interested. Cause also gotta realize being gay and telling a friend that you have a crush on him is a BIG thing to do. And you wonder why gay teens have the highest suicide right. I am not jumpin on yah or anything. But i want you to realize how your words/actions/comments can affect a person. BUt i am not your mama and i can't tell you what to do. All i can say is just be more careful on how you talk to a guy who may tell yah he thnks yer hott. Just say thinks. Hes still your friend no matter what ya know. They say "names never hurt me" But they do. My soph yr of college it happened to me. I was manicly depressed for a week and had a attempted suicide b4. But just re evaluating things i got over it. So all breeder boiz just be careful on how you talk. That person may not be alive tomorrow to tell you hi, or hug yah.

Marquis

[TheKow]

I think it's funny whenever people make a big deal out of being 'comfortable getting hugs from gay guys'. Anyway, yeah.

I've had more guys tell me Im' cute or flirt with me in the last few months than girls, and to be quite honest with you, though I would prefer a switch, it's still flattering. I don't get weirded out, and I don't know what would ever have inspired me to, though I can tell you I probably would've if I were still, say, a sophmore in high school. It's probably just more exposure to homosexuality. It's made out to be a threat - like a contagious disease - often times, and so people get really tweaked out about it. Once a guy figures out for SURE what he is and isn't interested in - which requires a bit of thought, not just a 'i have never felt that way so it must not be the case' - I think he'll realize that there's nothing to be afraid of.

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[TheKow]

To summarize, I think the key thing that did it for me was to stop accepting that homosexuality was a threat to my own paradigm, and to instead be rational and logical about it. This happens to a lot of guys (viewing homosexuality as something that you could 'catch') because it's the way that a lot of their friends or people they know may express it in that manner.

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[Na-Fun]

Hmmm, if a gay boi (particularly a close friend) told me he was attracted to me or had a crush on me, I'd be totally flattered. I don't think I'd pursue it (I'm not that comfortable with bi-curiosity yet), but I'd definately be glad they told me. And it certainly wouldn't change the way I felt about the person (except maybe make us closer friends).

I have several gay male friends who pinch my butt and throw innuendoes my way. It's damned flattering. I just end up being a tease back.

Love,
Nathan



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- Soren Kierkegaard

[Gizmo da candiman]

There aint nothin wrong with anyone for tryin and I have just as much respect for a gay guy as a straight its just those that let stereotypes rule there world that take it the wrong way I figure it being 98% straight itz all just a matter of showin other peepz your koo wit em so its all good

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[Efun]

im straight and proud i have been working on getting the first ever heterosexual pride parade together but these gay rights activist say its a mockery of their gay pride parades so im having difficulties anyother proud straight people wanna help

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"what the fuck"

[Devin]

well.... i'm striaght and it usually doesn't bother me when gay boys try to flirt with me. used to happen A LOT when i first moved here and was goin out every weekend, and i'd just kinda laugh. if you're POLITE about it it's ok.... but i remember ONE time at the BEAT BOX some kid kept making comments to me everytime i saw him, then one night he grabbed my nuts as i walked by, and that was NOT COOL. i'd probably be just as freaked out if it was some chick i wasn't attracted to at all though... so it really isn't a "gay" thing. just like women don't like to be harrassed by men... guys don't like it either. *hmmph*

[TrancePhreak]

Hatboi: WTF?? Did you not read my post or something? I told you why I'd feel uncomfortable, cuz I would NOT like the feeling of a guy flirting / hitting on me.

Na-Fun's response shows some of the possible things that could happen (IE the butt pinching & innuendos, another thing I don't want from a guy)

If you're gonna bash me for responding to this in a non-bi / non-gay manner, then you can go to hell you hear me, you go to hell and you die!

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[Hatboi78]

damn boi!
*gives trance a chill pill* Geesh!
i was not tryin to bash u at all. If it came across that way I sowwy. I was just like why do u react the way u do? thats whut I was tryin to say. I was sayin y do u get uncomfortable thats all. I was not attackin u in n e way whatsoever. But to quote cha.....

" It's just that when you know someone feels that way about you, often times you expect that they'll try to hit on your or try to
touch you in ways that you don't like."

Ya know. Thats what I was lookin at. I just wanted u to xpress yer thoughts and shit. Calm down dood. Often times its just a relief to tell a guy yer cute ya know. Thats the end of it. And u can tell em yer not at all interested and 9.5 out of 10x's da boi will leave ya alone. No we don't try to touch u n ways to make u feel uncomfy. Your buyin into a stereotype that society has given us. ( DO NOT TAKE THIS THE WRONG WAY. This comment is not directed at you trance, its a statement) Often times what happens is that straight guys always asume a gay guy wants them. Just cause you got the twig and berries that don't mean we want you. We might think it, but its just a fantasy. Fantasies are things we create in our own mind that don't come true. Thats y they r fantasies. So once again I sowwy fer makin u fell shitty or sumptin.

[TheKow]

Hmm.. don't be so paranoid.

To be honest, why be afraid of inuendos? Girls tend to worry because men have this really long-standng history of being the primary perpetrators of sex crimes against them, and if a guy's big and intimidating adn doesn't like to take no for an answer, then they have reason to be worried. But what're you so afraid of? Are you afraid you'll like it? Are you afraid that he'll call the gay gremlins to tie you down so he can pinch your butt all day? If someone pinches your butt or whatever and you're not comfortable with that, then you say so. If they continue, then you get angry, but by all means, give people the benefit of the doubt. This is duly true if you consider that gay men more than any other sexuality (for lack of a better term) in the world often are forced to keep control of their desires at risk of persecution and ostracism. Im' tired as hell so I'mna go to bed, but I hope this has made sense.

Hatboi isn't accusing you of being a bigot, but you do need to let go of this fear of a man having an interest in you. It's not very valid, and even if the things you're afraid of do occur, they're very easy to deal with if you're that uncomfortable with them.

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[Catalyst]

I can't remember a party (oh wait, I just remembered one...and another) where a guy didn't try to get a friend to hook us up, or come straight to me. Typical event: One night at Zoot Suite a guy starts dancing with me while I was speaker fucking (which I tend to do alot), and told me I was a great dancer. Then he starts doing the whole dance off thing, and I thought...hey, kewl, a dancing buddy. Then he hugs me and runs off...leaving me with a big smile on my face. I thought...what a fun guy! He comes back later and says, "I'm gay, and I think you are really attractive." I gave him a hug and said thanks! I didn't want to be a presumptuous jerk and say I was straight right there, just like that. I went back to dancing and just hanging out with him. Then he asked if I was gay, and I said no. He got this offended look on his face and was soon gone, never to be seen again.

What the hell? I almost felt insulted.

This seems to happen all the time...guys are such pigs! LOL!

Jason

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[Weirdass]

I have never felt uncomfertable around people who are gay or bi. In fact i use to go with some of my freinds to misfits in portland, which is primaraly for the gay and bi community of portland. sure i was hit on a time or two, but after i told them i was strait they compleatly respected that and were fine with it. acually i found it very flattering.

David

[Hatboi78]

Yo weirdAss,......see thats whut I want most guys to be like. Just be flattered but say no. Often times we r nmot lookin to get in yah, but just to let u know. If i have a crush on a breeder boi I don't expect n e thing to hasppen. I just tell him then its like a weight has been lifted off my shoulders. Then I move on. Simple as dat. images/smilies/smile.gif

CuDdLePiMp

btw...I applaude u and all other guys like you. Causdee for every guy who is comfy wiff homos there are atleast 10 who go weirded out and attenmpt to kill, mama, hurt, or harm us cause of a few words. Look at the world that we live in.

[TrancePhreak]

"To be honest, why be afraid of inuendos? Girls tend to worry because men have this really long-standng history of being the primary perpetrators of sex crimes against them, and if a guy's big and intimidating adn doesn't like to take no for an answer, then they have reason to be worried. But what're you so afraid of?"

Big and intimidating guys.. I'm quite small ya know. Just like you said, it's the guys who are usually the offenders. I've heard plenty a police story of a guy getting held down for things I don't want to happen to me.


"Hatboi isn't accusing you of being a bigot, but you do need to let go of this fear of a man having an interest in you."

Hasn't happened yet, so nothing to fear images/smilies/wink.gif

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[Headphones Dude]

Well, needless to say, I've always been straight, and probably will be that way. I really don't find myself saying to myself "I wonder what sex with a guy would be like.....", and I find the male body ok to look at, but it doesn't really turn me on the same way a girl's body does. Now this might be a little strange, but, I'll admit something. I like to be around gay people, but I feel no attraction, no fireworks, no "gosh, he's cute" thoughts. It's just the emotions in my head saying "These are really cool people, and I love hanging out with them...." Oh well, there you go. Another 2 cents from the artist formally known as the Headphones Dude......

[Hatboi78]

Hey devin..you still around? I am sorry boiut da boi whp grabbed yer nutz. Want me to kiss em to male em feel better??? HAHAAHAAHAH J./K See.... I do shit like dat. I flurt a llot. But its not meant to be tasken serious. AR ALL! You just gotta know what kinda person I am. I joke a lot. But I am a kewl kid. Well if u ever see me at a party say hi or sumptin,

Headphones dude.....I willkik it wiff u. I am da shiznit,. OH MY! I am tootin my own horn.But u know whut..fer da most part people don't spot me as being gasy till I tell em. I am just soo butch *adjust nuts* lol

[Hatboi78]

awwwwwwwwww..*wipes away a lonely tear*
Trance..u r sooo schweet. hehe. Now I wanna give you a big warm squishy gooey fuzzy wuzzy FRIENDLY hug. Had to emphasis da friend thing. Glad we got our miscommunicati0n thingy cleared up. I LOVE ALL YOU BREEDER BOIZ

CuDdLePiMp

[Powderhorn]

Well... suffice to say, this has happened to me in the last 10 days, and well... it has certainly caused me to question a few things.

I had friends essentially tell me "Well, you were repulsed because he was a guy, right?" Technically, it's a question, but you know that parental tone that asks a question but actually means "no-one I know would ever do that!"? That's the one.

And when I said, "well, it's not that he's a guy... it's just that I'm not attracted to him" I got this look of "fucking queer."

I dunno. I was certainly weirded out -- I'd never kissed a guy before... but at the time, it didn't seem so horrific (though the stubble was unexpected images/smilies/wink.gif). I just wonder if said guy didn't think he had different rules to follow because he was messing around with me (as opposed to a girl).

I don't feel violated or anything... I just think if I were female, there'd be talk of attempted rape. And somehow, that doesn't seem right... maybe I've just gone off the deep end or something.

Did I even come close to answering your question?

Powderhorn

[Hatboi78]

Powder..not to sound rude or anything but can you interpret your situation a lil bit clearer. I readit 5x's and I quite don't understand what angle you are coming fro. I want to give ya imput, but I don't know what you are tryin to say. Or maybe I smoked to much crack or something. lol j/k Or does any1 understand powder? Help him/me out


CuDdLePiMp

[Tertyl]

Hatboi....ahh..thanks for the kiss...i think. Ah...and I will have to say no to the tongue...nothing against you, I am sure you are a great kisser, just a firm jaw line, broad shoulders, and good pecs don't get the juices flowing for me. Give me soft skin, curves, and a giggle when I kiss her belly button any day of the week...

And as to Powderhorns post, it sounds like maybe he had one of those, "I'm really, really messed up right now and I am not sure what is going on. OH WOW, someone is kissing me now, what is going on? Who was that person? What great music, I think I want to dance once the boat stops moving so much... Hey, who let the elephant in here? heheh...my jacket is soooo soft....wow...can I hug you?" kind of nights. It sounds like he either did not like the kiss that much, or was just weirded out by it. Don't worry, it's OK, perfectly normal way to think...just go with what feels natural dude.

[Hatboi78]

okie dokie tertyl. No tongue. Just a nice friendly hug. Thank u for being positive. I thank every1 for being and spreading good vibes around here. I lub u all muy lotz!

CuDdLePiMp

[DjTeCh]

WHAT IN THE HOLY HELL MOTHER OF UR MOTHER !!!!

HATBOI !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
y don't i get any luvvin' ????!!!!

*runs to the corner and cries to god "WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!"*
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*smile* @ U ALL!!!
:)

Holy Shit! My Mouse Feels Like Goo!

[Hatboi78]

Yo dj...I got sum lubbin fer yah

*flicks tongue in a rapid motion @ dj* Oh its pierced too. I will let yer imagination run rampid.


CuDdLePiMp

btw..sorry fer not meetin ya at mornin fall. I got hella lost and said fugg it and went home. Got lost tryin to get home too. WTF! Next time I go to a party I am takin some1 wit me who knows directions. :O( *sigh* I dunno I just feel down now. i GOIN TO GO,
Bi Bi


CuDdLePiMp

[Tertyl]

Dude, DJTech...man...I did not mean to walk in on your boi...he said he was single...

No...i swear...no tongue...i never got any tongue...


Nah man...don't hit me with the table...he's all yours...I'm serious...PLEASE..NO!! GOD NO!! NOT THE TABLE!!

[Hatboi78]

uh-oh. Datcats out da bag. Hey tertyl.. u left yer boxers at my house *throws em at tertyl, and notices the red lipstick prints on em* hmmmm.....I think tertyl be gettin more than he be tellin us. Fess up or else I will put you in salt water. hehe

CuDdLePiMp

[TheKow]

You mean you were there when I brought the full-size Elephant to the party?! Shit, dude, why did'nt you tell me?

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The Kow

[Hatboi78]

HAHAHAHAAHHAHAHA @ KOW!

[sothis]

bump

[chemical_burn]

hey, I know this was talked about a while ago but I figured it was bumped so I might as well post. I'm a straight boi and porb will be for my life(I say prob cause I dont know what the future will hold) and I have a friend who is a bi boi. A while ago I found out he liked me a bit and I talked to him about it. I was calm and not all homophobic, I just asked him straight out if it was true. He said yea and he was sorry, I told him not to apoligize cause all he did was have a crush on me, no big deal. We talked about it and I told him I was straight and as far as I knew I was gonna be for a while. This guy is my best friend and has been for a looong while. I still stay the night over at his house almost weekly, we still hug and goof off as always. It hasn't changed a thing cause we talked about it calmly and didn't let things get all weird. If anything it made us better friends cause now there isn't anything unspoken between us. If your afraid of a friend doing things like hitting your ass, and hitting on you , then you should deal with it just like you would anyone else. I think it would be even easier cause you are friends and can talk better then you can with a stranger. Anyway, like I said, I'm straight and my best guy friend is bi and it hasn't changed a thing. Course maybe it's just me, I dunno, but thats my take on the subject...
plur_Kevin(Chemical-burn)

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where ever you are now you can't even imagine what the bottom will be like. It's only after disaster can we be resurected, it's only after you've lost everything that your free to do anything. Nothing is static, everything is evolving...everything is falling apart.---Tyler Durden "Fight Club"

[Mr.Tim]

AAAAAHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!

Look, it's simple!, just ignore all gender and prefference for a second here.

You have People. There are different types, you have Ho people that if they like someone, they will do everything to get their hands on them. You have Emotional people who tend to fall in love, and if they aren't loved back get hurt/offended. And you have Romantic people that just wish for a good relationship, but do little to pursue one. Regardless of your gender or prefference, you are one of these people, and all the people around you are too...Gender is not all that different, bois, gurls, we're all PEOPLE, we all have EMOTIONS, and we all make mistakes...just live with it, and if someone hits on you, and whether they are not of your prefference, or just plain groudy, don't take offense, cuz chances are they have the same taste as that hottie you've been lookin at all night images/smilies/wink.gif

~Mr.Tim.

[vtom]

damn hatboi - you are quite a troublemaker on this board hehe...

have you tried decaf?...doh

jk - i drink decaf and smoke weed allday but im still aa freak so i shouldnt talk....

i think its cool that all the str8 boiz and grrrlz have responded....but to be fair - think about the question - if it was turned around so to speak - but still in effect the 'same' question - ie to all the gay boiz - if you were at a party or club etc - a neutral say nongay specific but mixed place....and a girl hit on you - in any way, sly or obvious or whatever - but she was definitely hitting on you KNOWING you were gay - how would that make you feel?

i think its just about when people we are not interested in hit on us or vice versa - who cant relate to that?......of COURSE its gonna be uncomfortable....

and it would just be irritating if a chick knew you were gay ad not interested but tried to 'talk' you into it by saying well have you ever tried it?....

to me thats not the point esp about stuff like curious etc and all that crap (doh!) :-)

its one thing to be curious about a food...like say cool ranch flavored doritos..."ya know - I have to admit that color blue on the bag makes me not want to eat them but what the hell Ill give it a shot.." and ok - you actually do like them...

but sex is different - I had a friend of mine - gay boi - who when I told him i was bi said thats cool its all friction....but if its all just friction why was he gay?.....

cause its MORE than just friction thats ewhy...

so about bein curious and all that - i dont think thats a real well thought out thing sometimes...

k - i need a job.....

[Hatboi78]

hehehee...this post has arisen from the elephant graveyard. images/smilies/smile.gif Well lets see..where to beging. ok 1st off....


Chemical burn...WAD UP YO! You getz mad fuzzy wuzzy props from me. That was the kinda response I wish more str8 guys would give. But naw, we get the...well ya know. the GORY side of things. I mean if a guy thinks your hot then your hot. Take it as a compliment. Nothing loss, nothing gained. So glad to see you and yer friend still remail good friends. Both of ya get mad props from me.

Mr Tim: hmmm..good analogy. NOw with what you said I look at my life and my past bf's and etc... and i have come up with that I am a emotionial/romantic. Well of course ya i can say i get attached wayyy easily and when its not given back...yea i get a lil hurt. But i live. And as for the romantic side...HELLS YES! I treat no other like no other. Its just a side of me that i let out to play when i find a boi that is deserving of it. I'll explain more in a email.

Vtom: hehe *curtsy* Y thank you. I don't consider myself that much of a trouble maker. But how bout mischevious guy? hmm hehe OMG! and about hte coffee thing....umm ya know what, i been in Wa for damn near 10yrs and i never had a latte, mocha, or any other form of starbucks/SBC coffee. Weird huh? I gotz a natural high baby!!!

you smoke weed and drink decaf all day? DAMN! I must meet you. You are now "TOP" (gay inside joke. hehe) priority on my TO MEET list. hehe. Omg...match me bowls sometime. images/smilies/smile.gif I'll shoot da shit wiff ya. I have references. Ummmm i don't know of any1 whom i have ever met off of here had anything bad to say bout me. Well 1 guy, but FUCK HIM. lol so let me know if u want to kik it.

OH WAIT! i havn't even addressed your initial post....well if a str88 gurl hits on me?? hmmm i have had that happen b4. I think its too kyoot. images/smilies/smile.gif NO really. WAIT AM MIN! now that i think about it....mostly guys are the 1's to approach and talk to me. WTF! *yells out for more gay boiz* lol. it doesn't bother me at all. I kinda don't even tell em I am gay. I just smile and say thank you, give a hug, trade kandy, smoke a bowl, chit chat whatever i am in the mood for. But i think a large percentage of gay guys handle that more. Not to stereotype and say that gay guys are more in touch with their feelings, but we view things as a different whole than str8 guys. Str8 guys have this tough posterior attached to them ie " never cry, don;t be a punk, blah blah" and where as gay guys are a lil bit more concerning, loving and all the other mushy shit we can handle it differently. I mean besides....don't you always see gay guys around gay girls anyway? think about it? OH! and look at how many of the gurls want gay guys. Its kinda a balancing out thing. images/smilies/smile.gif

CuDdLePiMp

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[vtom]

you go hatboi - and I am honestly flattered (but remember that will get you no where haha)

your a sweetheart :-)

and my hat is off to you brotherman - 10 years in the big gray and no coffee...well fucking done - whoever said resistance is futile never tried it ;-)

tonight starseed...ive said too much

hehe

full moon...waxing....mmmm good

and yes i agree that sometimes gay boiz are maybe more open minded about things like gettin hit on by a girl since a lot of us have had the exp you are talking about with str8 guys etc - which makes us relate better to that situation in general if we are lucky and remember what it feels like....

and fyi i would prefer to be top-versatile on your to meet list ;-)

vt

[Hatboi78]

*grinz*

vtom said versatile. mah kinda boi WOOF

::scootin closer to vtom::

hehe thank you mr man. You are not such a bad guy fer yerself. esp being a NEWBIE (begins to chant NEWBIE NEWBIE NEWBIE, and points at vtom) images/smilies/smile.gif GOD ! I love being me. I am a ENIGMA. NOt that my head is getting big or anything ( cough cough choke choke) its just hatboi has a stigma attached to him and its like once you meet him you understand his p.o.v a lot more clearer. I just love being the nice, funny, smart, kik ass boi that i am. Notice how i am rambling. lol DAMN! your post has me all giddy. If you could only see this grin i have on my face. Those that have seen me roll WAYY hard know this grin. lol Well imma look fer yew sooner or later mr Vt. Even if i have to send out the bassat hounds to giet yer scent. images/smilies/smile.gif

CuDdLePiMp

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[TrippEVixen]

Hrmmm...lots of replys and not lots of time to read em...

I'll just say that I'm equally as flattered when I'm hit on by girls as I am by boys... I just prefer boys... so I just keep it to being flattered and nothing else when I'm hit on by girls. UNLESS it's shirley... but like I say... she's GOD... so she's not REALLY a woman! *grin*

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[Hatboi78]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHHA @ TRIPPE

YER FUNNe. images/smilies/smile.gif


CuDdLePiMp

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SMILE-- IT IS THE SECOND BEST
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[vtom]

hatboi - you better stop!....

:-)

mmmm roooollinn....(in homer simpson voice)

just really quick - its wierd you said i am enigma (in reference to you...)

ya know those big coffee table book of days/birthdays etc?....

thats what one of them is calling my day/me...

the enigma!...like psychic hehe

and dont ask - of course i wont tell you what day hahahahaha

ya we may meet someday....

vt

ps you gonna have to brig da kine cause Im audi yo hehehehe ;-)

[This message has been edited by vtom (edited 06-17-2000).]

[Godchild]

Gay guys have hit on me once or twice but havent said anything that direct. I am pretty self sufficient and have no need to be afraid of another persons feelings for me. I would be flattered in a way and because I have an evil streak I would probably taunt them with some mild flirtation (nothing to cruel). Unless they were a close friend and then I would just be straight with them (no pun intended) and communicate. I treat gay guys the same as I treat girls who I dont find attactive (with some obvious exceptions+guys can be attractive to me just not the same). I figure if they know they cant have ya then you've done your part. The rest is up to them. I never understood why everybody gets so crazy over somebody elses feelings. Emotions are crazy and trying to control your own is hard enough. I say to all the gay guys, go ahead check mi booty out! images/smilies/wink.gif

Seth

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Willy Wonka

[Hatboi78]

ROTFL! images/smilies/smile.gif


Vtom...well we shall meet sooner or later. I am around. Just gotta spot me. I'll be the 1 wearing the Zebra stripe camaflauge and holding a loaded pellet gun filled with Rabbit food aiming at kooky ravers everywhere. lol NAW, but i am down fer a meet. You seem umm "PLAYFUL" is a good way to put what i feel for you. RAWR BABY! OH! and i am THE ENIGMA! ( don't you love it when people refer to themselves in 3rd person hehe)

[Hatboi78]

GOdchild....hmmm. I will say this....yea you are cute. I can see y boiz would hit on ya. ANd damn it..now you are too far away fer me to check out yer bootay. DAMN IT! I wish i did at Fx that nite....AH WELL! i will just ask PowerPuffGirl all about you and then some. OH! the things i can think of. UMMMMMmmmmmm.......lol *gigglezzzz*


OMG! DOOD! you should...ahh nevermind. NO WAIT! post a pic of your ass and let us see what we cant have. OH THE TORTURE! THHEEEEEEE TORRRRRTURRRRRRRRRE!

CuDdLePiMp

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SMILE-- IT IS THE SECOND BEST
THING YOU DO WITH YOUR MOUTH
- - - - AND CURIOUSITY KILLED
THE CAT THEREFORE NO MORE PussY :)

[Godchild]

Ya know I think fiestygrrl must have about 50 pictures of my ass. I give her permission to post a good one. Warning: Wear Sunglasses.
images/smilies/wink.gif

Seth

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Willy Wonka

[RiceDiva]

omg...you guys are all...sooooo hilarious!! images/smilies/smile.gif

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[Hatboi78]

hehe...seth. DAMN YOU TEASE! lol

but don't stop. *grinz* lol


Yea...some1 post a picture of Seth's ass.



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THE CAT THEREFORE NO MORE PussY :)

[sothis]

bump

[Sober Kyle]

I am proud to be me!!!!!!!!
Straight as can be!!!!!!!!!!!!

( HE HE !! )


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[Sober Kyle]

HA HA HA HA HA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!
oops just kidding

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Drug's Are fun, Butt I like
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[ant666]

doesn't make me feel uncomfortable. I have alot of gay frienz and i take it as a compliment when a gay man hits on me. Now am i funna have sex or a relationship wit him? No!!! Im straight. or a little bent!@#$%^

[ant666]

doesn't make me feel uncomfortable. I have alot of gay frienz and i take it as a compliment when a gay man hits on me. Now am i funna have sex or a relationship wit him? No!!! Im straight. or a little bent!@#$%^

[PenguinBoy]

I'm proud to be straight, and have no problem with gay people. If a friend of mine had a crush on me, I wouldn't have much of a problem with it, so long as they didn't flirt with me too much. I guess a little flirting is alright, but I wouldn't like it if they made a habit of it. And friendly hugs are alright. I always like hugz images/smilies/smile.gif

But I haven't had the chance to know too many gay/bi guys, only chicks. So I don't have a heck of a lot of experience here.

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[Tweakster]

im str8...i have some gay friends...i think they are hella fun to kick it with...i've only been drunk once with hatboi...and hes got to be the funniest person in the world when hes on something...still funny when hes sober...

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ICQ - 70463865

[JP]

Anybody who knows me knows that I am about as straight as they get, but I do have a lot of gay/bi friends and have had quite a few hit on me. I find it flattering. To me it is no different than a girl hitting on me, just as long as they chill a bit when they know that I am straight.
*100% proud to be a breeder*

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[SimpleConfusion]

/me is straight as a board... I have many gay friends in fact my best friend came out of the closet last year. I'm with jp on the flattering part if they hit on me... but as long as it's just flirting and stuff I don't mind.

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Reality is just a place for ppl who can't handle drugs
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[Hatboi78]

I am wayyyyyyyy pumped that there is hella guys out there that are str8, but "boi" friendly ya know? images/smilies/smile.gif


I wish there were more like ya'll. Esp after the shit that i endured out in public the other day.

some people r wayy cruel. images/smilies/frown.gif

[Hatboi78]

Ques.....

where do u draw the line with flattery?

I have hella str8 friends that i flurt with. I do it a lot. but i don't intend to act on it.


Its more like tellin some1 they r cute, or have a nice ass. BUt thats all. I NEVER follow through with it.

So is it the amount of times its being said...or is it whats being said?

[JP]

Everyone has their own "Line" so you just have to find out what people are comfortable with. I dont mind someone making an occational comment, but if some guy who knew I was straight like grabbed my ass or jock or something else like that I'd probibly sock him. That'd be like me going up to on of my female friends and grabbing their tits. They'd deck me.
So all in all, just sensitive to everyones personal boundries and you should be "A-OK"

[ant666]

my friend richard cracks me up with some of the most pervert things i have ever heard. and the way he disses women kinda cracks me up too! some shit he says about pussies and tits is extremly fun and usually pretty damn gross. yet he ramains one of my best trusted friends and is kinda like a dad too. suga daddy too. he gets so pissed off because he nor any other man can't have my fine ass!

[Hatboi78]

ok ant666.....i gotta see a pic now.

the weird thing is..i belive what u say. hmm now thats a lil bizarre. so where u goin be at next sexy?

*lickin lips*

see...harmless flurtation? does that offend any1?

[kandicyd]

i take it as acompliment and simply explain i'm straight. it'es actually not a big deal. i have a couple of gay friends who hit on me all the time. i think its hilarious.

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